kolektiva.social is one of the many independent Mastodon servers you can use to participate in the fediverse.
Kolektiva is an anti-colonial anarchist collective that offers federated social media to anarchist collectives and individuals in the fediverse. For the social movements and liberation!
but that's not what's happening here. this is like a domestic abuser saying they wouldn't beat their spouse if they kept the house clean. it's straight up darvo.