k. r. jordan-abrams<p>today in transmasc learning about manhood as it becomes more and more relevant…</p><p>ties are expensive! this is ridiculous it&#39;s a tiny step of fabric! I ordered a few for cheap from SHEIN, but I figured I&#39;d turn to fedi as well for help from <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/DirectGiving" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>DirectGiving</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/HelpFolksLive" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>HelpFolksLive</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/HelpFolksLive2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>HelpFolksLive2025</span></a> <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/MutualAid" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MutualAid</span></a>¹ <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/MutualAidRequest" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MutualAidRequest</span></a> and the <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Jewish" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Jewish</span></a> and <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/Transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Transgender</span></a> and broader communities.</p><p>do you have a tie that you don&#39;t like or just feel is extra, and that you&#39;d like to find a good home for? please consider giving it to me. as I&#39;m revamping my <a href="https://kolektiva.social/tags/MensClothing" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>MensClothing</span></a> wardrobe although ties are strictly for formal situations where they&#39;re required, I&#39;d like to have a nice set of choices to choose from.</p><p>so folks have an idea of what I&#39;m typically wearing when I&#39;d wear a tie, I bought six mostly lightweight poplin shirts to wear. I have a tan, light grey, and grey sweater vests, I have a burgundy sweater to be obnoxiously matching with the maroon chinos because I can be.</p><p>I have become That Guy who wears chinos and similar all the time because theyre comfortably and the only things that fit me well. I have one pair of dark khaki/brown and middle grey from Target&#39;s Goodfellow&#39;s brand, one dark gray pair of Dockers, and one maroon pair from Amazon Basics. I like the Dockers and Amazon Basics more, surprisingly enough, so I&#39;ll be getting more of those and when I have enough, retiring and passing on the other pairs probably to a recovery house my dad knows that always needs more clothing.</p><p>so yes. please reply to me if you have a used tie to pass on, and I&#39;ll give my address as long as you&#39;re not a skeevy TBS person.</p><p>1. a note, this doesn&#39;t supercede other mutual aid posts. the rest are still applicable this is separate.</p>