there's people out there on Fedi openly fashjacketing us, openly saying we need to "have the maleness beat out of us."
and some of y'all are still choosing to play into the Fedi HOA's hands by demanding that we decenter transmisogyny in this discourse.
even when we're down and people are kicking us, it's still demanded of us that we put our needs aside and defer to cishets and TMEs.
transfem people: "we're currently being systematically isolated and cleansed from the greater fediverse, and also there's people openly using abusive language against us and getting brownie points for it. can we center these things for just a little bit? please?"
a subset of traumatized white transfems who've been conditioned by our abusive transmisogynist society to always center the needs of others: "ah, but have you considered that now is the perfect time for antiracism discourse?"
@YKantRachelRead honestly I feel like it's not just that that subset has been traumatized into centering the needs of others all the time I think it's also because the specific rhetoric that the people defending the bad place use is incredibly hard to fight and deal with because it completely turns the tables around and heavily co-ops Progressive language and causes we do actually deeply care about in order to attack us and shield themselves from criticism. It's crybullying.