@Gorfram @RickiTarr @ohmu @nellie_m
Sure, but I was specifically commenting on how their world view is so myopic is that they feel left out when there exists a space that is not meant for them.
They feel personally aggrieved they are confronted with the fact that someone doesn't feel safe around them. A safe space they are excluded from is, by definition, a declaration that there are people who do not consider them safe to be around.